This made me lol, because it’s something I would have tried. :lol:
In all seriousness though… every person has their own tastes and views: the women included. Eroge isn’t exactly something you’d bring up on a first date, anymore than mentioning you have a porn collection while dating Western women. Some might find it unnerving… while others might consider it cute.
In general, when dating Japaense girls, I’ve found they’re more interested in the whole: “I’m dating a foreigner.” You’re like the ultimate fashion accessory. Not that this is a bad thing however… it’s the ultimate ice breaker, and can get you hooked up very quickly.
If you’re looking for a girl that has an interest in the same things as you, you’re just gonna have to go clubbing and dating a lot. That part at least, is rather easy in Japan. Places like Roppungi aren’t infamous for nothing!
There really isn’t an authoritive suggestion I can honestly offer… dating is just so situational. Be yourself. Have fun.
Dating in Japan is different, but it’s not alien. Sexual attraction is still sex attraction after all.