first and foremost, nobody-san, you are more wise than you think you are…i’ve also decided on the same course of action that you suggest…not pressuring him and just enjoying his company and showing him how happy we are together is the best path for us right now, i think…it just gets me down sometimes because i wonder what is wrong with the world where a bitchy, controlling, jealous, manipulative bitch can get happily married, but a person like me, who is sweet, kind, reasonable, can be talked to, doesn’t play head games, is willing ot listen and can admit when she’s wrong falls flat on her face time and again
as for your questions, souldragon, here you go…brian and i met at NERO, which stands for New England Roleplaying Organization…basically, about 200 hundred people all get together at a campsite, dress in medieval and fantasy garb, wear elf ears, and beat on each other with plumbing supplies while running through the woods and tripping over tree stumps for whole weekends at a time…it’s a little more complicated than that (there are actually rules and such), but too long to describe here… www.neromass.com if you wanna know more
as for what makes him so great, there are a lot of things…first and most importantly, i feel more complete as a person with him in my life than i ever have, and i have been around the dating block quite a bit…we have an incredible amount in common…we have an amazing time together just sitting next to each other, each at our own computer playing our own games (usually EverQuest for him, Bishoujo games for me), and occasionally squeezing the other’s knee…he stimulates me intellectually, but he is just as capable of being silly as me (our current joke is to moo at each other in conversational tones)…we can spend 5 hours on the phone discussing Morrowind strategies, and effortlessly flow in and out of that and other more serious conversation about where we want our lives to go and such…he loves to cuddle, and is always touching me or kissing me, which i love…when issues do come up, we can usually discuss it reasonably without screaming or arguing, and he really listens and is honest with his answers (as honest as he can be)…we both love the country, he loves going horseback riding with me and hiking…and yes, the sex is amazing, for both of us, and half the time we make a joke of it (we had sex on a lookout near the sea once and we waved at a boat going by while doing the deed )…he totally admits he has issues and needs to work on them, he doesn’t expect me to be his therapist…we just FIT, if anyone understands what i mean
wow, that was a big rant…sorry about that, but i don’t feel like deleting any of it…now that you all know WAY more about my boyfriend than you ever wanted to know, i’ll leave it at that opinions are welcome of course